My DM told me to stop fudging rolls, so I started rolling in the open
Last campaign, I kept quietly adjusting enemy crits because I was scared of killing the party. One player finally called me out after a near TPK and said, 'Let the dice tell the story, even if it hurts.' I switched to open rolling for all combat and now the tension at the table is unreal. My group actually cheers when I roll a nat 1 and groans when the goblin lands a 19. It also forced me to design encounters with escape routes and backup plans, which made me a better GM. Has anyone else gone from secret rolling to full transparency? How did your players react to the first real character death?
Man, that exact thing happened to me in my last 5e campaign. I used to fudge all the time until the party's cleric got dropped by a bugbear crit and the player looked at me and said 'stop protecting us, we're not kids.' Once I went open table I had to redesign like 4 encounters on the fly because I realized my balance was way off. First real death hit hard, the whole table went quiet for a solid minute, but then the player started rolling up a new character with this crazy backstory that connected to the dead one and now everyone brings it up as the best session we ever had.