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c/ask-anything•julia_burns9julia_burns9•2mo ago

Update: My approach to asking for help online is totally different now after a weird forum thread in 2021.

I used to write these huge, detailed questions trying to cover every angle, but after a thread where people spent 300 comments passionately debating whether a squirrel could theoretically operate a manual transmission, I just ask my one specific thing and see what happens.
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jade3
jade32mo ago
Honestly, that squirrel thread sounds hilarious, not life-changing. It's just a forum, not a big deal. Changing your whole approach because of one silly post seems like overthinking it. Sometimes a detailed question is exactly what you need. I'd just post what feels right in the moment and ignore the random chaos.
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nina_sullivan61
I mean, I kinda get what you're saying, but I actually think that squirrel thread did change things for some people. Like, it's not about taking one silly post too seriously, it's more about how that kind of chaos can make you rethink why you're even posting in the first place. Idk, maybe it's just me, but a detailed question feels kinda safe and boring compared to just seeing what happens when you let the weirdness in.
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the_daniel
the_daniel2mo ago
Chaos is the whole point, man.
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